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How to Message Someone on TikTok

Published August 3, 2024

TikTok is a fantastic platform for sharing videos and engaging with content, but did you know you can also message other users directly? Whether you want to connect with friends, reach out to influences or collaborate with other creators, TikTok’s messaging feature makes it easy. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to message someone on TikTok.

Requirements for Messaging on TikTok

Before you start sending messages, there are a few requirements and settings to be aware of:

Age Requirement

You must be at least 16 years old to send direct messages on TikTok.

Following Requirement

Both you and the person you want to message must follow each other. This means you can only message mutual followers.

How to Enable Direct Messaging

If you meet the requirements, make sure you have direct messaging enabled.

Enabling Direct Messaging

  • Open TikTok: Launch the TikTok app on your device.
  • Go to Profile: Click the ‘Profile’ icon at the bottom right corner of the screen.
  • Access Settings: Click the three horizontal lines (or dots) in the top right corner to open the menu, then select ‘Settings and Privacy.’
  • Privacy Settings: Click ‘Privacy’ and scroll down to find ‘Direct Messages.’
  • Enable Messaging: Make sure that direct messages are enabled and set your preferences for who can send you messages, such as friends or followers.

Messaging Someone on TikTok

Once your settings are configured, follow these steps to send a message.

Find the User

  • Open TikTok: Launch the app and tap the magnifying glass icon to access the Discover page.
  • Search for the User: Type the username of the person you want to message in the search bar and tap on their profile when it appears in the search results.

Follow Each Other

  • Follow: If you’re not already following the user, click the ‘Follow’ button on their profile.
  • Mutual Follow: Make sure the user follows you back. You can only message users who follow you.

Send a Message

  • Access Profile: Go to the profile of the user you want to message.
  • Message Icon: Click the envelope icon (or ‘Message’ button) on their profile to open the messaging interface.
  • Compose Message: Type your message in the text box. You can also add emojis, images and TikTok videos to your message.
  • Send Message: Click the send button (paper airplane icon) to deliver your message.

Managing Your Messages

How to View and Manage Your Messages

  • Inbox: Click the inbox icon (envelope) at the bottom of the TikTok home screen.
  • View Conversations: Here, you can see all your direct message conversations. Click on any conversation to open and reply.

Tips for Messaging on TikTok

Be Respectful

Always be polite and respectful in your messages. Avoid spamming or sending inappropriate content.

Personalize Your Messages

Make your messages personal and engaging, especially if you’re racing out for collaborations or networking.

Stay Safe

Be cautious about sharing personal information and report any suspicious or inappropriate messages to TikTok.

Closing Thoughts

The bottom line is messaging on TikTok is a great way to connect with friends, influencers and other creators. By following these steps, you can easily send and manage direct messages on the platform.

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Jessica is a consultant, researcher, and the editor-in-chief of the Buzzoid blog, who specializes in social media, marketing, and digital strategy. She is a graduate of Antioch College and earned her MBA at Boston College’s Carroll Graduate School of Management, specializing in STEM Management.

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